9 Reasons to Avoid Perms and Relaxers
Suggested by SMSPerms and relaxers have been a long-time favorite of African American women promising silky straight hair for difficult to manage locks, but this beauty regimen comes at a high price – hair breakage, scalp irritation, stunted hair growth, and even permanent hair loss. Discover the top 10 reasons to avoid perms and relaxers and why you should stay away from them at all costs.
We all know there is an obvious difference between ‘black’ hair and other cultures. Some say kinky hair is a gift – you can wear it in so many different ways, but others call it a curse and have made the decision to permanently change the texture of their hair with the use of chemicals. I said permanently because once you add chemical relaxers or perms to your hair it is changed forever. There is no way to get back the natural wave pattern, even if you let the perm grow out. This is why the ‘older generations’ of African American women frown upon relaxing children’s hair. They say it will stunt their hair growth and ruin their hair forever. Well, the same it true for adult hair.
Before we review the top 10 list, let’s talk about the difference between perms and relaxers. A perm makes hair curly. This is also called a “Jerry Curl,” or “texturizer,” and used by African American men and women to create ‘waves’ on a short hair style. A relaxer, straightens the hair transforming the original curl pattern by loosening or relaxing the kinky texture. This is where the evolution of your hair takes place changing it from its original natural state to a lifelong process of having to reapply chemicals to maintain the same look each time causing more damage to your hair.
As odd as it sounds, the relaxer was actually invented by an African American man trying to create a product for a sewing machine shop back in 1910. He wiped his hand on a wool cloth and found that the chemical gave the cloth a smooth appearance. This must have been some kind of strong chemical to turn a cloth into a different texture. Did you know that this is the same chemical used to make drain cleaners to unclog sinks? It is even used to remove fur from animals in the leather making industry. And this is the same chemical that you want to apply to your precious hair? Are you really willing to risk the damage resulting from the use of chemical hair straighteners?
9. Hair Breakage
If you think using no lye relaxers are less damaging than those containing lye, think again. There are two basic types of chemical hair relaxers – Sodium Hydroxide (relaxers containing lye) and Guanidine Hydroxide (relaxers containing no lye). The manufacturers of these products want you to believe that no-lye relaxers will not damage your hair. This is simply not true.
The truth is those stunning pictures you see on the relaxer kits of black women with silky smooth hair are usually individuals who already have a good grade of hair. Don’t be fooled into thinking a mere $10 for a home relaxer kit will give you the same look; it is not that simple. There is only one full proof method to avoid hair breakage from chemical relaxers and that is to avoid them. Relaxers permanently alter the natural pH balance and chemical breakdown of your hair. This process weakens each strand of hair. Hair breakage and scalp irritation are common side effects from relaxing or perming your hair and is not a solution for hair that is damaged despite what you may have heard.
Let’s discuss a natural remedy for hair breakage using egg yolk and olive oil treatment. Applying one egg yolk and two tablespoons of olive oil to your hair while showering and rinsing with a mild shampoo is a home remedy that will help with hair breakage. You can use this remedy once a week and see a decrease in hair breakage. No chemicals, no burns; just positive results.
8. Hair Thinning
Hair thinning is inventible with applying chemicals. What we believe to be improving our hair is actually causing irreversible damage. Many women think leaving the relaxer in a little longer, or ‘getting the edges’ a little straighter by smoothing it down with a fine toothed comb will give them the look they want. Well, the truth is, this overprocessing is causes more damage resulting in thinning hair, especially around the natural hairline. You see women all the time with thinning ‘edges,’ and while there may other logical causes for this, it is a clear sign of the damage chemical hair straightening can cause.
An easy fix is don’t use a chemical agent to try to thicken your thin hair; try oat flour. Two little tablespoons added to your regular conditioner will thicken thinning hair. Oat flour can be found at your local grocery store or health food store and costs far less expensive than over the counter beauty products.
7. Permanent Hair Loss
Permanent hair loss is not uncommon with the use of chemical hair strengtheners. What starts out as a burn and turns into a scab can ultimately end up being a permanent bald spot where your hair does not grow back. This is frustrating, not to mention embarrassing as you try to cover up the unsightly area. Permanent hair loss can also start out with an area of thinning and as time goes on the hair continues to fall out. The likelihood of permanent hair loss is increased with the use of hot combs, curling irons, and hair that is pulled tight by hair rollers.
Instead of applying harsh chemicals, try a natural method to straighten your hair. As crazy at it sounds fresh coconut can gradually straighten those kinky locks without the fear of damaging your hair. You simply blend fresh coconut with lime and refrigerate. This will create a creamy mixture. Rub this on your scalp and cover with a hot towel for about an hour and rinse with a mild shampoo. If you do this three times a week you will notice the kinks start to straighten out.
6. Frizzy hair
Frizzy hair is a result of dry hair. This can be caused by a number of things – lack of moisturizer, infrequent or too frequent washing, lack of conditioning, or use of a perm or relaxer. Black hair does not take well to overconditioning. It can leave the hair flat and unable to hold a curl. Perms and relaxers do not help with frizzy hair; they only add to the problem creating dry brittle ends that lead to hair breakage. Flat irons and hair curlers only add to the problem.
Let’s go with a natural method to prevent the frizzies. Create a rinse of apple cider or vinegar and lemon (1 ounce to 1 quart of water). Since acidity helps restore the ph balance and tames the hair shaft by closing the cuticle, applying after shampooing is a natural way to get rid of frizziness without damaging your hair. The best thing about this remedy is that you probably already have it in your kitchen.
5. Scalp Irritation/Burns
Leaving perms and relaxers on too long can case scalp irritation or burns. The problem is only worsened by using additional products containing alcohol such as hair gels or sprays. Alcohol-containing hair products can aggravate the affected area causing slow healing, further irritation, or permanent scalp damage.
Treating scalp irritation should include removing dirt and oil from the affected area with a gentle shampoo and conditioning the hair. Applying antiseptic ointment to the area will help the healing process. Remember not to scratch or further irritate the area.
4. Split Ends
Your hair is made up of layers. The outer layer protects the hair shaft. When layer of protection is damaged with the use of chemical relaxers this causes the ends of your hair to split. This damage can travel up the hair shaft and cause hair breakage resulting in damaged uneven hair. Some say just trim the ends, but the truth is, perms and relaxers actually promote split ends. They dry the ends of your hair and wear down the protective layer. While trimming your hair is recommended with or without a perm, think of how much hair you are destroying each time you get a perm or even a touch-up. If you are trying to grow your hair long, you are fighting a losing battle with the use of chemicals.
3. Dry Brittle Hair
We all know that chemicals dry out your hair. This is not a secret. The makers of these hair products try to sell a dream and too many African American women buy into it to the tune of billions of dollars each year being spent. As their pockets get bigger, more and more consumers end up with damaged hair. This only means more money in their pockets as they (the companies) advertise different remedies to help restore the damage that their products have caused in the first place.
Not everyone has bought into this pipe dream though; many African Americans are going back to their natural roots with dreadlocks and natural kinky twist hair styles. Even the ‘afro’ has made a come back and it looks stunning. You need to know that chemicals do not repair dry brittle hair; they create it. If going straight is a must for you there are natural ways to get this look without applying chemical hair straighteners.
2. Scalp infection
Scalp infection as a result of perms and relaxers not so uncommon. There are several cases where consumers have filed lawsuits against the manufactures after using their products. In fact, some women are left with permanent bald spots due to scalp infection after the use of chemical hair straighteners requiring medical treatment. This is not the look that you want to achieve with the use of chemical straighteners; however, it may very well be the end result.
1. Respiratory (Breathing)/Gastrointestinal (Stomach) Problems
As strange as it sounds respiratory problems can occur from using perms and relaxers. Potassium hydroxide, also called ‘potassium lye’ is a very strong chemical and inhaling the chemical may cause coughing, sneezing, and breathing problems. If exposed to for long periods it is strong enough to cause damage to your lungs.
Ingesting potassium hydroxide can be equally damaging resulting in burns to the mouth and/or throat, vomiting, severe stomach pain, diarrhea, vomiting, and even death.
The effects of using perms and relaxers sound dangerous and it is; not just to your hair but to your overall health. Imagine something you apply to your hair having so many side effects – is having straight hair really worth the risk?
While the pictures of silky shiny straight hair are enticing, the health risks are overwhelming and not advertised nearly as much as they should be. Hair breakage, going bald, stunted hair growth, scalp infection, thinning hair, respiratory and GI problems – seems like a big price to pay for having straight hair. Consider natural alternatives to hair straightening or even going natural with braids, twists, or locks. Look good and feel good inside and out without the risk of permanent hair damage from the use of perms and relaxers.
OMG..I feel so sorry for the girl in #5. I wonder how she is doing now.
I will never get a perm ever again. I got a perm once and my hair was not the same. i eventually got fed up and cut the permed part off. What a waste of time and money. Ladies if you are reading this — please don't get a perm in your hair, you will regret it.
I have been getting curly perms for awhile but when they grow out I wait at least 3 months before I get another one to give my hair a rest, but your hair gets use to the chemical because if you don't get the perm you can't style it my hair is dry and brittle and its still thick but even when I apply some gel it don't last. I want to do without the perm but what can I put on my hair to make it curly or at least not look so dry and brittle. We are all human and we want to make our hair look good but I agree once you get that chemical in your hair that's it. What do you suggest I use to make it look good. I thought about getting hair and get it braid into my hair and keep it condition and moisturizes. i have dry skin so it don't take much.
Try a product called "WEN" it made a HUGE difference in my hair – now it's soft and shinny. Look it up on the internet – it's a very good and natural product.
Lucinda
hi there are healthy options. YES! it is important for you to enhance your natural beauty. you can do it without adding hair also. sometimes the added hair is too heavy and that also damages and pull the hair out it is called traction alopecia. call me jean
I was recommended Jean’s Greens natural products for the hair, in fact, my little Caucasian stylist was recommending it to ALL the African American clients in the salon! My hair was instantly transformed and easy to manage right on the spot! I will never go back to chemically influenced hair products again!
my older sister kept putting oil in her hair and it got alot softer but it was permed hair…but you should try to keep your hair moisturized and use oils, leave in conditioners, and hair treatments to calm it down a little.
hope this helps
I do not understand how chemical relaxers permanently change the structure of one's hair if they're constantly retouching their roots. Would not their hair be permanently straight roots and all? Informative article and great tips!
um der. your hair GROWS. its not gonna penetrate the hair that hasnt even grow yet.
@ Ana Allison didn’t ask a dumb question. The article said ” a curse and have made the decision to permanently change the texture of their hair with the use of chemicals. I said permanently because once you add chemical relaxers or perms to your hair it is changed forever. There is no way to get back the natural wave pattern, even if you let the perm grow out. This is why the ‘older generations’ of African American women frown upon relaxing children’s hair. They say it will stunt their hair growth and ruin their hair forever. Well, the same it true for adult hair.” So I would like to know how it damages the ungrown hair also….
It damages your hair follicles (the roots where your hair grows from) which permanently changes your hair even after you stop using the chemical.
these chemicals stip the off layers of cuticle the outside layer of the hair until the cortex is exposed. in this area are the bonds of the hair where the strength lies. these bonds are broken and that is why the hair breaks. that is permanent. no reversing that. i have the solution to the great hair breakage epidemic. please, if you want something different you might have to do something you have never done like check out and read the testimonies and look at the before and after pictures. i dont have time to trick anyone people deserve to have healthy hair and scalp and have it look nice as well. no longer do we have to sacrifice health, the health of our hair and scalp for a hairstyle.
I was looking up why older black women hair seem to be so thin and balding. Why is it that they seem to loose so much hair at that age besides the fact of getting older what could be going wrong b/c there was a big confusion that some people just don't know how to perm there hair right. I would never tell anyone to stop perming there hair unless I see obvious signs that they may need to stop but I have been natural for one year and I have accomplished the 1/2 an inch a month rule.
My mom just get her hair wash and hot curl but over the years here lately its getting thinner and thinner, she get dye put in once a month which you know dry has a chemical. Is it because of her age, or the dye itself, or because she takes medicine. You can tell when her hair gets parted its like a big space. What do you suggest.
Try a product called "WEN". All natural and made my hair SO SOFT and manageable. You'll love it – really – try it.
i have a curl in my hair and im trying to go natursl so what i do is … wash it , condition , then towel dry and then get a large tooth comb and gel it will jam styling gel. After that i comb it all towards the back and it just looks natural wavy and curly. You can add any hair accessories or ponytail pieces. Just try it =)
I have had relaxers for the past 20 years and I am trying to transition out to natural. Right now I am dealing with two textures and I try to keep my hair properly moisturized. My issue is that I end up with small knots & tangles in my hair after I wash & condition it. I tried everything and I am soo tempted to go back to a relaxer even though they are bad for me. Not to mention that I don't know how to style my hair in it's natural state except braids because my hair is so hard to maintain. Does anyone have any ideas on styles for transitioning hair or how I can wash my hair and not have a million small knots in it?
Try washing with cooler water, the hotter the water the more tangles your hair will get. If that doesn't help try adding a little conditioner to the shampoo during the first wash to soften the hair and it doesnt tangle, then washing without conditioner just shampoo. rinse well. next use a good deep conditioner that u can sit under the dryer or apply a hot towel for 10-15 minutes.
Try 100% Almond Oil on your natural hair and especially the ends. It softens, moisturizes and helps condition, hair and skin. I assume the knots and tangles are the new growth–a healthy sign. Our hair does that because it coils so tightly. I have all natural hair now and love wearing Twists but the knots and tangles can be interesting. You have to keep the new growth oiled and moisturized especially the ends. Since I've been doing that the knots are not so many. I found I could loosen them.
If you use your fingers to gently loosen the knots and tangles when hair is damp and slightly oily this should help. Sometimes by rubbing the ends between your fingers they unravel so to speak. You will still lose some hair to knots and tangles until it is completely natural again but if you keep it moisturized and protect the ends with Almond Oil or Extra Virgin Olive Oil that along with a protective hair style should help immensely.
Try two strand twisting your hair at night in about 4 to 8 big twists then untwisting them in the morning and taking your fingers to style it. No more heat on your hair of any kind, it is very damaging especially to transitioning black hair. Hope that helps.
contact me jean williams and these are old questions and comments is see. i hope stacey you have not reverted back to a relaxer. in the jeans green line there is a satin conditioner that you apply after shampooing the hair that helps the hair to detangle it closes down the cuticle and allow for easy combing. you can wear your hair straight by pressing, we had straight hair styles b4 the chemicals
I have been natural no perms hardly any blow dry and no straighten combs. Why should I try to "fix" something that God gave me? When dealing with two textures when you are going through perm and natural there are several things you can do. Mostly what I did before I cut the perm was do twist out,braid outs, and cornrows and then unbraid them. Please, sistahs go to nappturality.com you will find a lot of information and people going through the same frustrations and doubts that you are going through. Also, there are lots of youtube videos of natural sistahs too.
Stacey…why don't you try sisterlocks? Check out the official website at Sisterlocks.com. I have been natural for over 10 years. Going through the cycle of short afro …unmanageable length (never past my chin) …twists or wigs…and back to teeny afro. Sisterlocks gives you more styling options…and as Jeanette said, there are a gazillion youtube videos that focus on styling options…google, girl!
Keep the faith
oh, and check out the natural hair products (oyinhandmade is one co.). There are many natural ( in the house) products you may be able to use to detangle your hair.
Stacey…I feel your pain. Let me just say I currently have a relaxer in my hair and I am in the process of learning how to transition my hair back to it's natural state in the near future. I have decide to do a "Big Cut" and start over. I have been visiting many different website in order to learn how to transition my hair and once it is complete, and how to keep my hair healthy an manageable. Here is a list of some of the sites that I have found: Motown Girl;Hair Milk;komaza hair care;blghonline;essentious;sizta2sizta and more. See you on the other side and I hope this help.. A fellow Newbie
im 13 and im tired of my hair being so flipy,flippy,& curly wen it gets weti want my hair to be strait all the time but it never does i dont kno wat to do i wanted to straiten my hair chemically but dont want my hair to be frizzy and after this im scared to but im white does it make a difference?. ive been told it dries out ur hair i dont kno wat to do. HELP!!!!!
Kat I know just the thing that would help you, and no a relaxer is definately a bad thing for caucasion hair. What you can do is get a natural anti-humectants such as palm oil, olive oil, or shea butter. See if that works for you. Also if anyone would like to check out my natural hair article for African American hair here it is … By the way I'm glad that this list is still on here.
PLEASE READ EVERYONE!!
I’m a 16 year old guy of mixed descent.. From a young age, my hair was naturaly thick and curly, but I always wanted to see what It would look like straight.. The opprotunity came at the beginning of this year in highschool.. I took the chance, and I was extremely pleased with my hair.. HOWEVER, because of my short hair, I was able to nocie that after around the second time I permed my hair (by a friend with a cheap ‘do it at home’ kit) my hair was moderately thinner! Beeing prodominately worried for my health, I stumbled across this site and started remembering how I DID have a little irritation on my scalp, along with a few scabs afterwards.. My heart sank like a stone after reading the permenate effects of perms.. If you’d like to see pictures of my hair now, don’t hessitate to ask for pictures.. If you have any advice for restoring my hairs natural thickness and curls to 100%, please share!
Thanks for reading!!!
just regrow it…if our hair is oily us powder on it …if its not oily enough make sure it has alot of moisture to grow …thats wat im doing….. watch this girls video on youtube her name is urbanogcom and go to the video about her hair….she black and white but she said that it worked for her african american friendds also.
hope it helps!
Hi…
I have decide to do a “Big Cut” and start over. I have been visiting many different website in order to learn how to transition my hair and once it is complete, and how to keep my hair healthy an manageable.
This is a great post! I have never gotten a relaxer and never will. There is nothing that you can do with relaxed hair that you can't do with natural hair. You just have to do the right stuff and find the right stylist. Don't let those T.V. commercials fool you!Relaxers are terrible for your hair and your body.
Under #9, the section about hair breakage you discuss women with 'a good grade of hair.' By saying that there is a good grade of hair, you are implying that there is also a bad type of hair, further perpetuating that straight, silky hair is preferable.
– This is not the case at all. That section only states that there is an appearance of silky smooth hair. By stating this does not mean the hair is healthy.
the majority of these problems have been caused by overprocessing, the solution being left on for way too long. this is no reason to avoid a perm or relaxers as long as you have a professional take care of you! there are other things your stylist can do such as use a pre-neutrilizing conditioner to help repair the hair and they can use a protein spray on your ends. happy chemical texturizing everybody!
– I think the problem is once the relaxer is used there is no turning back, you can't go back and change your mind because once your hair is permed it is permanent until the new growth comes. I got a perm when I was a teenager and some of my hair fell out. I wonder why some people that got perms have thin hair? Pisses me off everytime I think about it
Like I said to someone already your hair get use to those chemicals and its like your hair won't do right until that chemical gets in. I wish I had never use chemical but I can say my hair don't break off it sheds some which it will but I want to get it cut where the new growth has come in. Why do your new growth feel like a brillo pad its weird and it amazing what your hair can do and how it grows out.
hey guys i am a victim,i dont know what to do now..can u help me .i am an African girl of 17yrs..i left my country this yea and i came to Thailand its been 9 months now ..am a student …alone …without family here…but my main point is that i used the Thai shampoo and conditioner ..for a long time but when i used relaxer 2/3 of my hair went off ..am very scared ..it cuts day by day ..can u help by telling me what to do about that ..am nervous …thanks to who wrote this article ….u can also email me at …..hope u can advice me on what to do….
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OMG I feel soooo bad for the girl in #5!!! I've been wanting to get my hair permanently straightened (I have mixed race African American hair) But until I saw the girl in #5 and the hair thinning…. I'm starting to rethink now…. If I DO decide… later on to get my hair permanently straightened, I would be S.U.R.E. to do a test on small sections from different parts of my hair. And if all turns good… then I'll take the risk…………. But until then, Does anyone know how I can straighten hair without heat or chemicals? If its permanent and almost positive it wont hurt my hair, PLEASE TELL ME!! But if its temporary….. TELL ME!!! I really want to straighten my hair, but I dont want to take a huge risk and end up having no hair….
Yes I do! Heat is not a bad thing! It’s only bad when your hair has been processed or you do it everyday! So go to the egyptians or a black hair shop And learn how to wrap your hair so yu don’t straighten it everyday. I HOPE YOU LISTEN CAUSE IM NOT I BALD HEADED GIRL TRYNA GIVE ADVICE- I LIVE THIS LIFE SO I REALLY HOPE YOU TAKE THIS ADVICE TO HEART!! curls work good to but yu have to buy a bunnet. You have to just try things out are hair can become really nice once yu do regimens often you hair becomes train to hold style forever and a day.
I DONT HAVE A RELAXER AND I HAVE REALLY LONG HAIR FOR IN THE AFRICAN AMERICAN COMMUNITY! (18 inches). I WANTED TO AND MY MOM WOULD NOT ALLOW ME AT FIRST I WAS UPSET BUT IM VERY HAPPY NOW THAT I DONT HAVE ONE. WHEN I GOT TO THE SHOP MY HAIR GETS EVEN STRAIGHTER THEN THE RELAXER! I LIKE GOING TO THE EYGPTIANS THEIR REALLY GOOOD! EVERYONE IN MY COMMUNITY THINKS IM MIXED CAUSE I BLACK WITH LONG HAIR, BUT I KNOW THEIR BRAINWASHED—THE WILLIE LYNCH SPELL IS HARD TO BREAK BUT IM GLAD THIS SITE IS TAKING ABOUT ARE ISSSUE AND TELL US THAT WE DONT NEED PERM TO HAVE NICE HAIR!!!!!!! CAUSE IF MOST OF US NEW BETTER WE WOULD DO BETTER SO THANK YOU— IM SURE ARTICLE SAVE A LOT OF PPL HAIR AND w/ THE DEEPER ISSUE IN ARE COMMUNITY THAT STEM OFF OF THE LOW SELF ESTEM THAT SHORT HAIR GIVES YU IN ARE (black) community!
Somalians never have to worry about it! they have the best hair ever!
BLACK BEAUTY IS IN EAST AFRICA! SHOUT OUT TO THE GIRLS FROM SOMALIA! DJIBOUTI! ETHIOPIA! <3
I am currently growing out a jherri curl perm but my hair is soo brittle dry and horrible i have a perm in my kitchen but im scared!! i am nigerian and american please help is this mix safe??? i do desire strait hair
The same happend to me. I was at the afro shop in germany to relaxed my hair. After that my skin was itching very strengh and my hair at side of my had fall out. It never grown back. I just can have one hairstyle. Now I dont relaxing my again. I try to wear it natural. Which is difficult because in germany we dont have good hairdresser for black hair. At rhonda…dont use relaxer look at the page from Miss Jessie`s. The have good products. Sorry for my bad english.
I can tell women that use alot of weave because you see young girls almost bald from the front of their forehead to the almost the middle of their head. I use to wear the clip-on ponytails but a friend of my would pull the strings so tight( yes it stay on ) but I started to lose hair in that one spot and it didn't grow for awhile. I have learn unless you have a beautician that care about her hair then she will care for your hair. But if you have a beautician that don't care and think she can do perm by estimating the time then you can have overprocess bad and with relaxer( which I can't do) they will burn and that was my problem with relaxers( no lye) even children relaxer they still burn. When I see mothers that put all these weaves and chemical in these small children hair and by the time they become a teenager they are under the impression that their hair didn't grow, if a perm burns me or tingle my scalp can you imagine a child its so wrong and then you have the mothers that will experience all this stuff on their children but they won't put it in their hair they go to a professional for their hair, so sad.
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i have read all of the post i am a hairstylist.We go to school to be educated on hair and chemicals.Now i do believe that some people my have an allergic reaction to relaxers.If it is your first time that is why we do a strand test first.I have been doing hair for 25 years and i have never had any results as to the pictures i just witnessed.A trip to the beauty salon is like a trip to the dr.There are hair care tips,tools and product that goes home with the client to maintain as well.We must do analysis on the client as well.We must consider medication the client my be on.In my experience customers have not always been honest with trying to play the hairdresser themselves.You need to know that high blood pressure,diabetes,thyroids,drugs and alcohol can play a major part on how your hair may respond to relaxers.There was a comment on age women hair thinning out,do we know their health history also.I know relaxers are not for everyone.I also know natural is not for everyone also.There are precautions we must follow these are chemicals which are toxins and can be a hazard to our health and harmful to our hair but i leave you with this when you are sick you go to the dr.,to be treated so we can feel better. I also believe that when you want to look good leave that to the professional that has gone to school.Not someone in the kitchen doing home perms,but one with a license from that state to perform with knowledge and the ability to take care of you.Yes we practice just like the dr,but the dr base his diagnosis on what we tell him,we do the same.I do not think we all as hairdressers may not consult with the client like we should when they are a new,this is very important.I am sorry for all the bad experience some of you have had with relaxers,but i have seen good results in my 25 years of experience.
Lisa, I do agree with most of your statements above about sick ppl going to the dr because they are professionals and women going to a professionally licensed stylist when they want to look good…However, in your 25 years, you MUST acknowledge that traditional black hair stylists tend to make black women with coarse/kinky hair textures think that they should NOT be natural and that they MUST get a relaxer. Otherwise, this whole natural/relaxed thing would not be an issue. We have been told for many many years by stylists that our hair would be “more manageable” and “easier” to do if we just got a relaxer. Well, in my opinion, I’m not paying you for a service to make it easier on you. If I have natural hair and you don’t know how to do it, just say that so I can go somewhere else. I think we all have the right to a choice. If a woman decides to relax her hair after receiving all of the pros and cons, then by all means, relax her hair. But if I come in to your salons and say I want to go natural, stylists should get upset and try to talk me out of a decision that I feel is best for me…whether my hair is coarse/kinky or a has a soft/wavy curl. Just sayin…
Frist of all I know for the fact relaxers are bad they brake off your hair, stop the hair grow and even thins out the hair that is why i shave off all my hair and started from the being and now my hair is full and think
and thick i mean
What I think is that all you women should watch Good Hair By Chris Rock that is a very good movie and also very funny we as black women should love the hair we are born with that is what makes us who we are
“Good Hair” by Chris Rock is not a movie. It’s a documentary. I enjoyed it and hope he plans to follow up because there were a lot of questions unanswered. There’s no way to get them all in one documentary but I was really hoping there would be a part 2 by now!
its so elegant and easy to be done but the problem is i have short-medium hair ..is there any way i can do it instead of waiting to grow my hair ?
I don’t know who wrote this article but there is a lot of misinformation here in the introduction before you even get to the 9 reasons. I may or may not continue to read the article but for those looking for facts and statistics, before reading any article, check for the name of the author, his/her credentials, and references. This goes for articles on any subject.
For those wondering, there is no such thing as a jerry curl. However, there is a jheri curl and it’s not a perm. Also, a texturizer is a chemical relaxer, not a perm. Jheri curls and texturizers are NOT used to create waves. The elusive man who discovered the chemical for chemical relaxing is Garrett Augustus Morgan, Sr.
I am 28 years old and I have been getting relaxers since I was in the eighth grade. My hair is thick and healthy I have been going to the same hair dresser for years and she knows my hair. I get soooo many compliments on my hair. While I know perms aren’t for everybody but my hair has done just fine.I have lots of body yo my hair as well.what l don’t do is put a lot of heat to my hair.I go every two weeks to get it done.
Hi Monik. I am also 28, so we were in the same era growing up & I understand where you are coming from. Before I went natural 4 years ago, I also had long, thick hair with lots of body. In high school & college, people couldn’t keep their hands out of my hair…lol. However, I noticed that although my hair was already long & thick, it sort of never grew past a certain length. A long length, but still it was like it maxed out or something. Anyway, I went natural and like I said it’s been 4 years & now my hair is the longest its ever been in my life. I also agree with you when you say people need to take care of their hair regardless. I took care of my hair when I had a relaxer and I take care of my hair with the same intensity now that I’m natural (except I don’t go to the hairdresser every 2 weeks anymore…just about once every other month yay!). I say this to say that you are correct, but my personal experience has led me to believe that NOT putting harsh chemicals on my hair has resulted in my hair flourishing beyond my imagination! I have never been without hair, so I don’t know how that feels, but now, it’s amazing!
You’re a baby. Let us know how that goes in another 20 years or more. I can’t believe the denial in these comments. Everything created for our hair historically has been to destroy it. Defending the chemical destruction of our hair?
It has nothing to do with any of the excuses we give or examples of women and men who have SURVIVED chemical alteration of their hair. Survive is not thrive. Would you use these chemical as a facial creme? No because it would damage your skin. So what do you believe is happening inside your head and on your scalp.
The scientists hired by these companies that create these products and back the schools where they learn to apply them are paid big money to find ways to delay the inevitable damage to our hair, skin and BRAINS. Hence the huge profits of these companies that also sell products that must be used to manage chemically altered hair to delay the eventual effects.
Women of other races suffer this damage just as we do. But for us, we are products of slave mentalities. When will we finally face that we have been taught to mirror white women instead of how God made us which is beautiful. He created us before he created whites. The first man and woman looked like us not them. The people who dominated ancient history look like us not them.
We love saying we are African but don’t want to look like we come from Africa. What is that about? Brainwash so the European world can continue to get rich off of us. If that ticks you off to know that,if you can continue to defend what these companies (Black, White and Asian)do to our hair with our permission, doesn’t it prove the point of how brainwashed we are?
I’m 25 years old and I’ve never had a perm in my life. But even with natural hair my hair grew as a kid but also broke off and was dry because of inproper haircare. Relaxers will predispose you to the worst hair malfunctions but if you’re not treating your hair properly then this will happen anyway. But considering there are less invasive methods of straightening your hair I’d recommend going for those options over relaxers. I don’t like the idea that relaxers seem to be chosen in efforts to look presentable as though their natural hair is so ghastly. When my friends are between weaves/realxers they won’t set foot outside the house for absolutely anything! That’s what gives people the impression that black women use chemical straighteners because they are ashamed or embarassed of their natural hair. It’s cool to see a natural movement in place but I do find some of them very high and mighty and judgemental about relaxers for people that only stopped using them a few months or years ago.
“I said permanently because once you add chemical relaxers or perms to your hair it is changed forever. There is no way to get back the natural wave pattern, even if you let the perm grow out.”
I’ve recent cut off my relaxed hair after 11 years of using the chemicals, and I can truly say that my hair is just as thick and curly as it was when I used to get braids all the time.
Good article, though…
Ok so I’ve been reading these comments and I just got to say that some of you women for a lack of better words are down right silly. Firstly all of those pictures are depictions of what would happen in extreme cases of relaxing and perming gone wrong….this article was put up to scare you if you don’t agree with relaxing that’s fine but that doesn’t mean that you need to frighten people into not doing it.I’ve had relaxed hair and I have natural hair now and I’ve never had any of the issues that were shown because I went to a professional and made sure my hair was always in good health.if you get burned its either because you have a sensitive scalp which you can’t help or you irritated the surface before apply the relaxer (ever wonder why your NOT supposed to scratch or have cuts or abrasions on your scalp before you relax your hair hairdressers will even turn you down if you tell them you scratched or if they find irreitation to the area)and your hair will thin of course if leave it in too long etc. But its the same thing if you were to blow dry or flat iron your hair a lot it stiLl thins out your hair and honestly when I used to blow dry my hair my hair was much thinner than when I relaxed it I went to hair school and you were obviously misinformed when you wee told that the texture of your hair permanently changes…EH WRONG your the hair is changed UNTIL the new growth comes in the natural texture of your hair from the root will remain unchanged thus why you have to get it retouched….DUH its a chemical change to your hair not a permanent 1 its just like if your hair is a natural #2 or dark brown and bleach it blonde that is also a form of a chemical change but guess what after 3 weeks you’re gonna have to get a touch up hmmmmmm wonder why….idk maybe because your hair is constantly growing and the lightener didn’t get down into your cortex….lol ladies please properly educate yourself before you decide to scare people its unfair as long as you relax it properly treat your hair well between relaxer touch ups keep hair well moisturized and trimmed regularly you will be just fine
I’m a managing cosmetologist.. currently in school to get my instructor license………… I agree,get educated..9 times out of 10 the person went to a boot leg or did it them self……….
PEOPLE SHOULD STAY HOW THEY WHERE BORN SO THEY WONT HAVE TO DILL WITH BAD HAIR!!!!!!!
I agree natural hair is the way to go (FOR ME). I have been back and forward with relaxing or being natural for years. I find natural hair is more maintenance and costly (FOR ME) with my hair type. Im a do it myself type of woman and its still costly. Most of the posters here with natural hair probably dont have my hair type which is type 4b (which is extremely hard to manage). I have no curl or wave pattern just soft frizz that draws up extremely tight. So it takes a lot of maintenance to tame it. If it was a different texture I would never put a relaxer in it. Yes I have damage edges that may never come back. Relaxers have been damaging to my hair too. But all in all I prefer natural because its what God gave me. By the way I’m transitioning to natural right now. Occationally i do braids (doing it myself so they are loose and not too tight to break off hair). I may cover my head in a head wrap. Just trying various things to avoid cutting all my hair to start over (which I have done a few times before). Well, Its worth the time and money to go natural (for me).
One question I haven’t had a relaxer since August and my hair is doing ok but now I’m trying to find the right products as far as shampoos, conditioners, and etc for my hair. I have a lot of shedding and I want more body. I want a less harsh product. I’m inbetween essentious, wen, and carols daughter products. I need some advice on which is best. Can anyone help?
Omg!I DIDNOT NO THAT! NOW IM NEVER GONNA GET A PERM N MY LIFE EVER AGAIN! They Need 2 Make A Commercial About That Stuff 2 Worn People !
Please learn how to spell the dictionary is your friend.
*Going not gonna
*In not N
*Warn not worn
*TO NOT 2
A book titled chemical Suicide will let you know why you should stay away from perms.
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I love that I have stopped using relaxers, it will be a year in May. The only problematic differece I see when I stopped is that my hair tangles and knots really bad when I wash. I use chemical free or close to chemical free shampoos and conditioners but none have been sucessful in elimanting the knots, one product helps but I spray it on after the condtionin process it because it is expensive I don’t want to spray it on and then wash it off it’s $20.00 for a I think 6oz bottle, nut if I find that I cannot find a conditioner I will have to use this product.
my sister in laws hair is purmed and it look fine to me will it change
I am 12 years old and i was in new york when i was 5 years old when my great cousin tracy put a perm in my hair without permission from my mother and my mother said that my hair changed ALOT and then now in 2012 i asked her for a perm she said “no” i asked her why she said she will show me so she she showed me this website and i no longer want a perm #2 scares me it reeally actully makes me cover my eyes the scalp infection was what really changed my mind about perms i DO NOT want mi scalp looking like that!!!! i really want to use WEN my mother said it would be an ok idea so i subscribe wen to the non-permers out there
NO PERMS NO PERMS NO PERMS YEAH (:
When God says a word, it will surely come to pass. He said, instead of well set hair, it will be burnt. He can never lie.
So, please, stay natural and stop modifying yourself artificially.
I love your site. keep informing them for the benefit of their health. Thanks.
i dont think this is for everybody … everybody takes to something different… an the pic thatsnsuppose to be dry brittle hair looks like somebodys nuts sack (jus saying)
I would like to go natural and still wear a straight style. I have seen the wonderful tips from Jean and others for accomplishing this. One concern I have is that I dont want to trade my heart health for hair health. I like to run and am concerned about maintaining a natural, straight “do” after a sweat. Any tips?
Hair is dead,so perms cannot change your hair once the new growth appears,which has not been relaxed.
Also all the emotion about African ancestry and god,is way overblown. I am 67 years old and there is lot in life to freak out about,hair should not be one of them. Michelle, Sasha and Malia Obama our beautiful first family all have relaxed hair and it looks pretty good to me. Just saying
Well said Ms. Nelson! I agree with you 100% about hair :))
Thank you Nickie.
The reason Ms Obama has relaxed hair is because it appeals more to caucasion population. It will look bad if she had dread locks, natural, or afro. Frankly, i dont think Obama would have won if her hair was natural.
Hi Scandalous,
You cannot possibly know why Michelle Obama
relaxes her hair; and she had relaxed hair before she married Barack Obama. Perhaps you wish to appeal to caucasion people. Please do not assume everyone is like you, I can assure you we are not.
Barack Obama is the president of the U.S. Michelle is not and you do not know if he would have won,if she had any of hair styles you mentioned. Please stop attaching all this emotion to “hair”, it is not at important.
Adrienne Nelson
Many of you “natural is not for me” and “get educated before perming your hair” women are a real trip.
Brainwashed I say. Brainwashed.
Wow all of this sounds terrible. I have natural hair right now and its very kinky and it shrinks to about half its length. I really want a mild relaxer just to have more length. I thought that if you took care of your hair properly and had a good stylist that chemically processed hair can thrive because I see it alot. Im 17 and i want a new look im bored with natural hair. If I take really good care of my hair and only get touchups 3 times a year will my hair be okay?
Just to be clear I love my hair. I wear it to school in a afro puff everyday. I just had this style for so long and I want a new look thats all. The coconut thing did not loosen any curl in my hair lol. my hair is armpit length but shrinks to my ear. Im not going to wait until my hair grows to my hips but shrinks to my back you know. So thats why I want a mild relaxer to loosen my hair up with longer curls.
It should be quite obvious to anyone that if a substance has the ability to break down the molecular structure of one’s hair, the benefits of it to the health of the hair should be questioned. Molecules make up cells. My other concern of course is that at 58 years of age, I grew up in a time when Black is Beautiful was an affirmation which equated with self love and self acceptance. It seems to me that in many ways we have gone backwards. My six year old granddaughter has requested a relaxer because her hair is “nappy”. I am saddened by this because already she has accepted that nappy hair is a problem, and relaxing it or straightening her hair is a solution as well as a mechanism to make her more beautiful. How does this attitude contribute to the overall mental health of our people!?
Hi Pearl, Interesting post,however if I may play devil’s advocate for a moment.Hair is dead so it cannot have health once it appears on your head. As for your grand daughter, perhaps she is too young for a relaxer, but it is not the end of the world because she wants one. I am 67y/o brown skin woman with freckles and kinky hair (without a relaxer). My dad was half Cherokee native American, my grandmother was half German there are probably more twists to my heritage as it rumored one ancestor was the result of rape by a white slave master. So please tell me who are my people?
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