9 Reasons to Avoid Perms and Relaxers
Perms and relaxers have been a long-time favorite of African American women promising silky straight hair for difficult to manage locks, but this beauty regimen comes at a high price – hair breakage, scalp irritation, stunted hair growth, and even permanent hair loss. Discover the top 10 reasons to avoid perms and relaxers and why you should stay away from them at all costs.
We all know there is an obvious difference between ‘black’ hair and other cultures. Some say kinky hair is a gift – you can wear it in so many different ways, but others call it a curse and have made the decision to permanently change the texture of their hair with the use of chemicals. I said permanently because once you add chemical relaxers or perms to your hair it is changed forever. There is no way to get back the natural wave pattern, even if you let the perm grow out. This is why the ‘older generations’ of African American women frown upon relaxing children’s hair. They say it will stunt their hair growth and ruin their hair forever. Well, the same it true for adult hair.
Before we review the top 10 list, let’s talk about the difference between perms and relaxers. A perm makes hair curly. This is also called a “Jerry Curl,” or “texturizer,” and used by African American men and women to create ‘waves’ on a short hair style. A relaxer, straightens the hair transforming the original curl pattern by loosening or relaxing the kinky texture. This is where the evolution of your hair takes place changing it from its original natural state to a lifelong process of having to reapply chemicals to maintain the same look each time causing more damage to your hair.
As odd as it sounds, the relaxer was actually invented by an African American man trying to create a product for a sewing machine shop back in 1910. He wiped his hand on a wool cloth and found that the chemical gave the cloth a smooth appearance. This must have been some kind of strong chemical to turn a cloth into a different texture. Did you know that this is the same chemical used to make drain cleaners to unclog sinks? It is even used to remove fur from animals in the leather making industry. And this is the same chemical that you want to apply to your precious hair? Are you really willing to risk the damage resulting from the use of chemical hair straighteners?
9. Hair Breakage

If you think using no lye relaxers are less damaging than those containing lye, think again. There are two basic types of chemical hair relaxers – Sodium Hydroxide (relaxers containing lye) and Guanidine Hydroxide (relaxers containing no lye). The manufacturers of these products want you to believe that no-lye relaxers will not damage your hair. This is simply not true.
The truth is those stunning pictures you see on the relaxer kits of black women with silky smooth hair are usually individuals who already have a good grade of hair. Don’t be fooled into thinking a mere $10 for a home relaxer kit will give you the same look; it is not that simple. There is only one full proof method to avoid hair breakage from chemical relaxers and that is to avoid them. Relaxers permanently alter the natural pH balance and chemical breakdown of your hair. This process weakens each strand of hair. Hair breakage and scalp irritation are common side effects from relaxing or perming your hair and is not a solution for hair that is damaged despite what you may have heard.
Let’s discuss a natural remedy for hair breakage using egg yolk and olive oil treatment. Applying one egg yolk and two tablespoons of olive oil to your hair while showering and rinsing with a mild shampoo is a home remedy that will help with hair breakage. You can use this remedy once a week and see a decrease in hair breakage. No chemicals, no burns; just positive results.
8. Hair Thinning

Hair thinning is inventible with applying chemicals. What we believe to be improving our hair is actually causing irreversible damage. Many women think leaving the relaxer in a little longer, or ‘getting the edges’ a little straighter by smoothing it down with a fine toothed comb will give them the look they want. Well, the truth is, this overprocessing is causes more damage resulting in thinning hair, especially around the natural hairline. You see women all the time with thinning ‘edges,’ and while there may other logical causes for this, it is a clear sign of the damage chemical hair straightening can cause.
An easy fix is don’t use a chemical agent to try to thicken your thin hair; try oat flour. Two little tablespoons added to your regular conditioner will thicken thinning hair. Oat flour can be found at your local grocery store or health food store and costs far less expensive than over the counter beauty products.
7. Permanent Hair Loss

Permanent hair loss is not uncommon with the use of chemical hair strengtheners. What starts out as a burn and turns into a scab can ultimately end up being a permanent bald spot where your hair does not grow back. This is frustrating, not to mention embarrassing as you try to cover up the unsightly area. Permanent hair loss can also start out with an area of thinning and as time goes on the hair continues to fall out. The likelihood of permanent hair loss is increased with the use of hot combs, curling irons, and hair that is pulled tight by hair rollers.
Instead of applying harsh chemicals, try a natural method to straighten your hair. As crazy at it sounds fresh coconut can gradually straighten those kinky locks without the fear of damaging your hair. You simply blend fresh coconut with lime and refrigerate. This will create a creamy mixture. Rub this on your scalp and cover with a hot towel for about an hour and rinse with a mild shampoo. If you do this three times a week you will notice the kinks start to straighten out.
6. Frizzy hair

Frizzy hair is a result of dry hair. This can be caused by a number of things – lack of moisturizer, infrequent or too frequent washing, lack of conditioning, or use of a perm or relaxer. Black hair does not take well to overconditioning. It can leave the hair flat and unable to hold a curl. Perms and relaxers do not help with frizzy hair; they only add to the problem creating dry brittle ends that lead to hair breakage. Flat irons and hair curlers only add to the problem.
Let’s go with a natural method to prevent the frizzies. Create a rinse of apple cider or vinegar and lemon (1 ounce to 1 quart of water). Since acidity helps restore the ph balance and tames the hair shaft by closing the cuticle, applying after shampooing is a natural way to get rid of frizziness without damaging your hair. The best thing about this remedy is that you probably already have it in your kitchen.
5. Scalp Irritation/Burns

Leaving perms and relaxers on too long can case scalp irritation or burns. The problem is only worsened by using additional products containing alcohol such as hair gels or sprays. Alcohol-containing hair products can aggravate the affected area causing slow healing, further irritation, or permanent scalp damage.
Treating scalp irritation should include removing dirt and oil from the affected area with a gentle shampoo and conditioning the hair. Applying antiseptic ointment to the area will help the healing process. Remember not to scratch or further irritate the area.
4. Split Ends

Your hair is made up of layers. The outer layer protects the hair shaft. When layer of protection is damaged with the use of chemical relaxers this causes the ends of your hair to split. This damage can travel up the hair shaft and cause hair breakage resulting in damaged uneven hair. Some say just trim the ends, but the truth is, perms and relaxers actually promote split ends. They dry the ends of your hair and wear down the protective layer. While trimming your hair is recommended with or without a perm, think of how much hair you are destroying each time you get a perm or even a touch-up. If you are trying to grow your hair long, you are fighting a losing battle with the use of chemicals.
3. Dry Brittle Hair

We all know that chemicals dry out your hair. This is not a secret. The makers of these hair products try to sell a dream and too many African American women buy into it to the tune of billions of dollars each year being spent. As their pockets get bigger, more and more consumers end up with damaged hair. This only means more money in their pockets as they (the companies) advertise different remedies to help restore the damage that their products have caused in the first place.
Not everyone has bought into this pipe dream though; many African Americans are going back to their natural roots with dreadlocks and natural kinky twist hair styles. Even the ‘afro’ has made a come back and it looks stunning. You need to know that chemicals do not repair dry brittle hair; they create it. If going straight is a must for you there are natural ways to get this look without applying chemical hair straighteners.
2. Scalp infection

Scalp infection as a result of perms and relaxers not so uncommon. There are several cases where consumers have filed lawsuits against the manufactures after using their products. In fact, some women are left with permanent bald spots due to scalp infection after the use of chemical hair straighteners requiring medical treatment. This is not the look that you want to achieve with the use of chemical straighteners; however, it may very well be the end result.
1. Respiratory (Breathing)/Gastrointestinal (Stomach) Problems

As strange as it sounds respiratory problems can occur from using perms and relaxers. Potassium hydroxide, also called ‘potassium lye’ is a very strong chemical and inhaling the chemical may cause coughing, sneezing, and breathing problems. If exposed to for long periods it is strong enough to cause damage to your lungs.
Ingesting potassium hydroxide can be equally damaging resulting in burns to the mouth and/or throat, vomiting, severe stomach pain, diarrhea, vomiting, and even death.
The effects of using perms and relaxers sound dangerous and it is; not just to your hair but to your overall health. Imagine something you apply to your hair having so many side effects – is having straight hair really worth the risk?
While the pictures of silky shiny straight hair are enticing, the health risks are overwhelming and not advertised nearly as much as they should be. Hair breakage, going bald, stunted hair growth, scalp infection, thinning hair, respiratory and GI problems – seems like a big price to pay for having straight hair. Consider natural alternatives to hair straightening or even going natural with braids, twists, or locks. Look good and feel good inside and out without the risk of permanent hair damage from the use of perms and relaxers.










OMG..I feel so sorry for the girl in #5. I wonder how she is doing now.
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I will never get a perm ever again. I got a perm once and my hair was not the same. i eventually got fed up and cut the permed part off. What a waste of time and money. Ladies if you are reading this — please don’t get a perm in your hair, you will regret it.
I do not understand how chemical relaxers permanently change the structure of one’s hair if they’re constantly retouching their roots. Would not their hair be permanently straight roots and all? Informative article and great tips!
I was looking up why older black women hair seem to be so thin and balding. Why is it that they seem to loose so much hair at that age besides the fact of getting older what could be going wrong b/c there was a big confusion that some people just don’t know how to perm there hair right. I would never tell anyone to stop perming there hair unless I see obvious signs that they may need to stop but I have been natural for one year and I have accomplished the 1/2 an inch a month rule.
I have had relaxers for the past 20 years and I am trying to transition out to natural. Right now I am dealing with two textures and I try to keep my hair properly moisturized. My issue is that I end up with small knots & tangles in my hair after I wash & condition it. I tried everything and I am soo tempted to go back to a relaxer even though they are bad for me. Not to mention that I don’t know how to style my hair in it’s natural state except braids because my hair is so hard to maintain. Does anyone have any ideas on styles for transitioning hair or how I can wash my hair and not have a million small knots in it?
I have been natural no perms hardly any blow dry and no straighten combs. Why should I try to “fix” something that God gave me? When dealing with two textures when you are going through perm and natural there are several things you can do. Mostly what I did before I cut the perm was do twist out,braid outs, and cornrows and then unbraid them. Please, sistahs go to nappturality.com you will find a lot of information and people going through the same frustrations and doubts that you are going through. Also, there are lots of youtube videos of natural sistahs too.
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Stacey…why don’t you try sisterlocks? Check out the official website at Sisterlocks.com. I have been natural for over 10 years. Going through the cycle of short afro …unmanageable length (never past my chin) …twists or wigs…and back to teeny afro. Sisterlocks gives you more styling options…and as Jeanette said, there are a gazillion youtube videos that focus on styling options…google, girl!
Keep the faith
oh, and check out the natural hair products (oyinhandmade is one co.). There are many natural ( in the house) products you may be able to use to detangle your hair.
Stacey…I feel your pain. Let me just say I currently have a relaxer in my hair and I am in the process of learning how to transition my hair back to it’s natural state in the near future. I have decide to do a “Big Cut” and start over. I have been visiting many different website in order to learn how to transition my hair and once it is complete, and how to keep my hair healthy an manageable. Here is a list of some of the sites that I have found: Motown Girl;Hair Milk;komaza hair care;blghonline;essentious;sizta2sizta and more. See you on the other side and I hope this help.. A fellow Newbie
im 13 and im tired of my hair being so flipy,flippy,& curly wen it gets weti want my hair to be strait all the time but it never does i dont kno wat to do i wanted to straiten my hair chemically but dont want my hair to be frizzy and after this im scared to but im white does it make a difference?. ive been told it dries out ur hair i dont kno wat to do. HELP!!!!!
Kat I know just the thing that would help you, and no a relaxer is definately a bad thing for caucasion hair. What you can do is get a natural anti-humectants such as palm oil, olive oil, or shea butter. See if that works for you. Also if anyone would like to check out my natural hair article for African American hair here it is http://www.meshplex.org/wiki/The_Effects_of_relaxers_and_Going_Natural_for_African_Hair By the way I’m glad that this list is still on here.
PLEASE READ EVERYONE!!
I’m a 16 year old guy of mixed descent.. From a young age, my hair was naturaly thick and curly, but I always wanted to see what It would look like straight.. The opprotunity came at the beginning of this year in highschool.. I took the chance, and I was extremely pleased with my hair.. HOWEVER, because of my short hair, I was able to nocie that after around the second time I permed my hair (by a friend with a cheap ‘do it at home’ kit) my hair was moderately thinner! Beeing prodominately worried for my health, I stumbled across this site and started remembering how I DID have a little irritation on my scalp, along with a few scabs afterwards.. My heart sank like a stone after reading the permenate effects of perms.. If you’d like to see pictures of my hair now, don’t hessitate to ask for pictures.. If you have any advice for restoring my hairs natural thickness and curls to 100%, please share!
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I have decide to do a “Big Cut” and start over. I have been visiting many different website in order to learn how to transition my hair and once it is complete, and how to keep my hair healthy an manageable.
This is a great post! I have never gotten a relaxer and never will. There is nothing that you can do with relaxed hair that you can’t do with natural hair. You just have to do the right stuff and find the right stylist. Don’t let those T.V. commercials fool you!Relaxers are terrible for your hair and your body.